“...What was it Jesus said? Something about loving your neighbor?..”
Loving your neighbor is not the same as accepting their “lifestyle”. Jesus said, “Go and sin no more.” He was always forthright about God’s narrow way vs. the ways of the world.
Hey, I am not saying embrace the lifestyle. I am saying there is nothing you can do about it. You can choose to love her and pray for her, or not.
Telling her she is damned for all time really doesn’t sound too productive.
I also know that the poster already knows the answer to her question. It’s in her heart. It’s not my place to damn anyone else. I have lots of lumber-jacking to do in my own eye.