1. Love them.
2. Be polite.
3. Don’t allow them to force you to embrace evil:
Don’t use their false terminology.
“Gay” is a lie.
They are “homosexual” if you must refer to that.
I don’t think “lesbian” is a lie.
Never refer to them as anything but friends - otherwise you legitimize their nonsense by agreeing to use their made-up false terminology (would you call your brother “she” if he started saying he was a woman?).
There is only one mom - the woman who gave birth (the other is the child’s guardian).
Don’t let them share a bed in your home (would you let them if they were hetero?).
If they get uppity and complain, tell ‘em straight up:
“In the spirit of diversity and tolerance, I don’t dictate what you must do, say, and believe - and I expect the same from you. I love you but I won’t lie to you or for you, which means I won’t use the politically-charged language you prefer. In the spirit of tolerance I know you will not think less of me because I have strong beliefs that are different than yours, and I have the integrity to live by those beliefs.”
I’ve never gone with their name game and called them gay, to me and my family they are homosexuals.
Agree about never giving up ones own principles or views regardless of who they are.