If I could hold off selling her til after she's 12, I'd almost take the 3 years in prison as opposed to going through that 13-17 age with another daughter .
JUST kidding!
I raised boys and I admit that was MUCH easier! My Dad used to tease me that I went into my room at 13 as a monster, but when I reemerged at 18 and left for the Army, I was a moderately tolerable human being, LOL!