No less classy than sending your proposal in the mail. Now he knows why you propose in person, that way if she says no you never let go of the ring.
>>>No less classy than sending your proposal in the mail. Now he knows why you propose in person, that way if she says no you never let go of the ring.<<<
I disagree. While mailing the proposal is rather odd, (probably a failed effort at being “creative”), and not too classy, it does not sink anywhere near the depths of classlessness and saying no and keeping the rock.
I agree with your second point. This should be a lesson to all you single men out there. Don’t actually let go of the ring, until you get the “Yes!”. :)