Well, if it makes you feel any better, marriage isn’t working too well for some of us hard-working, God-fearing, gun-totin’ ConservaBabes, either!
I just got shafted in my divorce last year. Got the honor of paying him gobs of cash to keep my farm while rewarding his immoral, illegal, adulterous behavior. Grrrrr!
Should’ve killed him when I first wanted to - I’d be out of prison by now, LOL!
And at 50, I’m not doing it again. A long engagement? You betcha! But, my plan is to get back as much as I had to give him by collecting on his SS the minute I’m eligible.
(And before y’all beat me up, he gamed the system and got away with it; why shouldn’t I?)
Almost always the courts side with the female especially if children are involved.