I think I deleted my spiel about black weddings. I've been to one. I didn't take a head count of how many of who.
Then I wondered how many anybodies are invited to the elite weddings in America. I would never expect to be, and can't say it bothers me a whole lot. I wasn't invited to my niece's wedding because it was upper crust, and my family's presence would have embarassed them, and it was known that I wouldn't have been able to travel there anyway. So I sent her a nice present anyway. I have good social manners but don't dress the part because I no longer care about that.
I really get along well with most black people, some I don't, and really like the ones I like a lot. I wish the agitators would leave us alone about it. I grew up in the north, and there was racism only not as bad in the south.
I've also attended black churches a couple of times and felt accepted to be there. And a whole whole whole lot more I won't bother anybody with.
I'm sorry I made you angry, but white people can be sensitive about things, too.
racism is just as bad in the north as the south so I’m not sure where you get your idea it is worse in the south, look at Detroit, Boston, hell even today in Boston, Chicago, Philly etc