“This will only distract him from his pain, which may be better than nothing, but it will not get rid of his pain so he can find inner peace. As soon as the distraction’s effect has worn off, it is likely he will be worse off. “
Definitely worse off. I can’t do “casual sex” as the world sees it. People tout it as a way to have fun without entanglements, which is utter BS in my mind. A lot of people may not admit it, but sharing a sexual union with another person creates a deep, powerful emotional union as well...one that should not discarded lightly or treated cavalierly. This is true for women AND men, much as the latter may not want to admit it. To do so inevitably damages you in deep ways. I have enough shit broken already, I don’t want to add to it.
That is wise.
That may sound strange, to deal with depression. But remember, God planted a tree in the Garden which just eating the fruit of it would extend life forever! It was that other tree, the one touted as making one as wise as a god that got Adam and Eve in trouble. Take the mega dosing of D3 and monitor yourself to feel the change taking place! It really works, FRiend.
Very wise. Get whole and healthy yourself and then you will be able to share the joys of life with someone else, actually, with everyone else that is receptive. There are some who wish to stay unhappy and they succeed. Stay away from those kind of people until you are whole, then they won't even bother you. All my best to you. I know you can do it.
Sometimes we just need someone to listen; not have it all bottled up inside. You’ve picked a good forum where you can remain anonymous, if you choose.
I take it you are not in a serious relationship at this point.....have you been in the past?