Very wise. Get whole and healthy yourself and then you will be able to share the joys of life with someone else, actually, with everyone else that is receptive. There are some who wish to stay unhappy and they succeed. Stay away from those kind of people until you are whole, then they won't even bother you. All my best to you. I know you can do it.
Yeah-uh, that’ll work: give the excuse-polisher more excuses.