Love it! It just kills me to see how many people think they owe it to their kids to pay for college. It’s one thing if mom & dad can afford it, but it’s quite another if the parents put that college fund ahead of their own needs.
I say this as a parent who firmly believes that kids come first once you have them, that you must always consider their welfare in whatever you do while they are still minors.
One of the best things that parents can do for their kids is to ensure that the kids won’t have to take care of the parents’ during retirement.