Have you worked your way down the thread yet? The topic of the thread is someone's disgust at being told to "rise above the fray". I've observed that "the fray" is vulgar and crude.
What's your agenda?
To keep "our side" above the fray.
“What’s your agenda?
To keep “our side” above the fray.”
Your “our side” appears to have a population of one - you, and you have totally obfuscated the intent of the initial post! Your denials are pure crapola...
JC