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Facebook's Phony Friendships (Do you respond to e-mails invitations to become a Facebook "friend"?)
American Thinker ^ | 10/01/2010 | Paul Schlikta

Posted on 10/01/2010 7:26:20 AM PDT by SeekAndFind

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To: SeekAndFind

I have never responded to any online invitation unless it came from someone on my list.


21 posted on 10/01/2010 7:52:46 AM PDT by JimRed (Excising a cancer before it kills us waters the Tree of Liberty too! TERM LIMITS, NOW AND FOREVER!)
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To: SeekAndFind

Like anything else, ok in moderation. It is a great way of keeping in touch and sharing family pictures. If you spend more than 10 minutes per day on it and it becomes more of a virtual alternate life than a tool, Facebook can cause serious problems


22 posted on 10/01/2010 7:53:05 AM PDT by wolfman23601
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To: SeekAndFind

Im friends with people I dont even know. . . They ramble on and on and on about crap nobody knows or care about.
Im going to go log on now and watch. . .


23 posted on 10/01/2010 7:53:27 AM PDT by ßuddaßudd (7 days - 7 ways Guero >>> with a floating, shifting, ever changing persona.....)
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To: jrd

“he’s not on facebook his name does not come up when you do a search”

He might be using an avatar. Try typing in “Sourpuss.”


24 posted on 10/01/2010 7:54:49 AM PDT by fidelis (Zonie and USAF Cold Warrior)
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To: SeekAndFind
I was expecting thousands of hot young women to be sending me friend requests each day. It was what I was living for.

When that didn't happen, I quit.

25 posted on 10/01/2010 7:55:15 AM PDT by atc23
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To: SeekAndFind

No. I don’t even have an account.


26 posted on 10/01/2010 7:55:29 AM PDT by US_MilitaryRules (Where is our military?)
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To: VRWCmember

Just don’t say that you’re freeping right now.

You’ll get attacked rabidly by any lefty friends you have, and their lefty friends will join in too.


27 posted on 10/01/2010 7:55:36 AM PDT by Dexter Morgan (Everyone hides who they are.)
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To: SeekAndFind

That is also the way i see it, my wife and some of her family joined facebook, i signed up but then got to thinking about it and did not complete it.

I got to thinking about how many real friends i have and i was shocked, i could count them on one hand and have fingers left, i am not telling my age but most of my friends are done gone unless i do not take into consideration what a friend really is.

A real friend is worth all of the gold in the world, keep them.


28 posted on 10/01/2010 7:57:59 AM PDT by ravenwolf (Just a bit of the long list of proofs)
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To: dawn53

Yep - I got to reconnect with several people with whom I lost track. My general rule-of-thumb is that I only accept requests from people with whom I’ve had face-to-face contact and would actually converse with in the real world.


29 posted on 10/01/2010 7:58:01 AM PDT by scott7278 ("...I have not changed Congress and how it operates the way I would have liked." BHO)
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To: SeekAndFind

Facebook was instrumental in getting the word out for my mom’s funeral. It was less stressful than calling everyone and telling them about the death (it was unexpected). I still called my closest friends to tell them personally.


30 posted on 10/01/2010 7:59:01 AM PDT by AirForceBrat23
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To: dawn53

That’s exactly what I love about it! I have reconnected with dozens of the old friends I went to HS with and enjoy “checking in” with them on a daily or weekly basis (as the case may be), and seeing pictures of their vacations and their families, it makes me feel like those years in between have dropped away, and I can keep in touch with all of them without having to spend hours on the phone (which I deeply dislike). Also, I have a LOT of family in Ireland, and this gives us all a way to stay connected without frequent transatlantic phone calls (not really a fan of those either). If someone else doesn’t want to join the party, so to speak, well that’s fine! But calling other people out just because they enjoy having a multidimensional way to maintain friendships and family relationships is childish and somewhat controlling (don’t like controlling people either!). So I’ll just go back to my FR and FB now.... :-)


31 posted on 10/01/2010 7:59:38 AM PDT by VRWCer ( They will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. - ML King)
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To: SeekAndFind

Facebook is a great tool for networking with other conservatives.

I also have actual, real life friends on there and even a select few Freeper friends.

The writer should get the sand out of his crotch.


32 posted on 10/01/2010 7:59:54 AM PDT by Constitution Day
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Facebook has connected me to missing friends and classmates throughout America. Political pages such as Sarah Palin's are quite enjoyable. I have relatives that I can keep up with in a way that wasn't possible before. My business is on Facebook, giving me a larger target to sell to.

And it's free.

Mr. Grumpy who wrote this article did everything but write "Back in my day..." Whippersnappers ! ...magritte
33 posted on 10/01/2010 7:59:56 AM PDT by magritte ("There are moments, Jeeves, when one asks oneself "Do trousers matter?")
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To: SeekAndFind

Why does this screed remind me of “Emily Latella”?


34 posted on 10/01/2010 8:00:34 AM PDT by VRWCer ( They will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character. - ML King)
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To: fidelis

I have two friends who use Facebook to advertise their ministries; actually, it’s more like incessantly “pimp” their ministries. I’m a Christian and I enjoy hearing about how God works in other people’s lives, but I’m to the point where I’m going to delete one of those two friends.

I’m not saying you’re like that, btw!

I have a cousin-in-law who decided he needed to start his own ministry. Why? Because he has “so many facebook friends.”

No joke.


35 posted on 10/01/2010 8:01:00 AM PDT by Dexter Morgan (Everyone hides who they are.)
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To: scott7278

Also, I like to stealth-attack liberalism. I’d like to say that I’m at least a little bit responsible for some defections from the Dark Side. ;)


36 posted on 10/01/2010 8:01:33 AM PDT by scott7278 ("...I have not changed Congress and how it operates the way I would have liked." BHO)
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To: SeekAndFind

I have reconnected with tons of old friends. I love it.

And I occasionally accept friend requests from people I don’t know if it doesn’t look like they are spamming a website.

I can see why he things displaying your friends is kind of weird. But that’s optional. And finding one friend and then looking at their list of friends for mutual friends you have forgotten is a great way to reconnect.


37 posted on 10/01/2010 8:04:41 AM PDT by DannyTN
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To: Dexter Morgan

The few lefty friends that I have know better than to try to verbally attack me because they end up being emotionally and mentally eviscerated for all to see. What’s really sad is when from their responses they actually think they have scored a point or two with their witticisms and only look even more foolish.


38 posted on 10/01/2010 8:06:27 AM PDT by VRWCmember (Jesus called us to be Salt and Light, not Vinegar and Water.)
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To: SeekAndFind

FACEBOOK, MYSPACE, etc. , are just ways to dupe the youth in our nation into putting all their private information online, and thinking that only their ‘friends’ will see it.


39 posted on 10/01/2010 8:08:18 AM PDT by UCANSEE2 (lame and ill-informed post)
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To: fidelis
As far as “friends” go, I tend to keep my list extremely short: after two years on Facebook, I only have 48 “friends” though I get requests daily. I’m highly selective who I let into my circle: mostly family and people well known to me.

That's a great idea. I might have to go in and delete everybody who is not either a family member or part of my "mafia". :-)

40 posted on 10/01/2010 8:09:39 AM PDT by VRWCmember (Jesus called us to be Salt and Light, not Vinegar and Water.)
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