I never said God was unfair, I just asked some questions that no one seemed to answer..
What answer are you looking for that others have not answered pretty extensively? It seems to me that rather than question people so much you might better be directing your questions to God with a Bible open in front of you....and read til He reveals His answers directly to you. He wants us to know Him and He wants us to seek what He says....especially since you seem to have difficulty understanding the answers you’ve been given.