Posted on 06/23/2010 9:15:42 AM PDT by MissTed
Can they ever be cured? Sure they can. Move them away far from their stuff. Been there, done that.
Yeah, I once got offered a roundtrip ticket from Dallas to Anchorage on a Thursday for $163. The only catch was that I had to leave the next day. I took it and spent a great 10 days in Alaska. There was no way I could pass that up.
now, can’t do that with family.
TLC had “Hoarding: Buried Alive” and it was interesting. There is no cure; the person must choose not to act on the impulse, which at its root, really is just pathological selfishness. I was amazed at the hoarders with families - they would inflict these horrible living conditions on their spouses and children but when confronted would whine that their families “did not respect their stuff.”
“...when confronted would whine that their families “did not respect their stuff.”
Exactly. I have had a bit of experience in that department. We found that really the only thing that works if to take complete control and not allow the hoarder to make any suggestions. The hoarder must be removed from the situation. If the hoarder will not agree, then the job cannot be done.
Sounds tough, but it’s the only way.
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