[camle]

let me see if I get this: you would not normally call the cops if someone hits and threatens your daughter?

would you call the cops if this same person stuck a knife in her ribs?

or would you rather do it BEFORE the kid sticks a knife in her ribs?

[Jewbacca]

I understand what you are saying.

And yes, I agree this goes WAY beyond normal school yard stuff (which happens and is part of life, IMHO).

I just posted this because can’t stand whinners who go “tattle” and wanted to see the reaction of outside people was the same as my instinct (go nuclear on this family).

What I see is an agreement to go nuclear, and that is what I am going to do.