Well, I would imagine all of the children who have had their throats ripped out by a pit bull might have "wet their pants in terror". And I doubt they could change their own diaper.
On the other hand, you don't have to worry about them "letting the grownups talk" since they no longer have a larynx. And they are often in buried in a small coffin. Coffins will keep the little darlings fairly quiet.
This little girl was killed by a pitbull.
So maybe you are right. She probably deserved to "wet her pants" because she "provoked" the gentle pit bull.
Your appeal to pure emotion without addressing the facts is typical liberal pap, and it truly is wearisome.