Posted on 04/26/2010 10:59:47 AM PDT by Steelfish
What Is A Life Without Sex Like?
Finlo Rohrer BBC News Magazine
The recent scandal over the handling of child abuse in the Catholic church has again focused attention on celibacy. But away from the arguments, what is it actually like to lead a life without having sex?
This is, we are told, a highly sexualised society.
HISTORY OF CELIBACY "The roots of celibacy are in all major religions except Judaism and Islam, and even these religions insist on pre-marital virginity, at least for women," says Elizabeth Abbott
For the Catholic Church, celibacy grew up for three reasons In interpretations of the Scriptures, celibacy was more perfect and desirable in God's eyes
Celibacy allowed priests/nuns and other devotees to consecrate their lives and thoughts to God Celibate priests were not a financial drain on the church
(snip)
In the 21st Century UK, indeed in almost all of the West, sexual imagery can be found in many places, and many young people expect to have a number of sexual partners before eventually settling down.
This perhaps may explain why the idea of a celibate lifestyle, as practised by the clergy of the Catholic Church, as well as adherents of other religions, causes a great deal of puzzlement among non-believers.
"In our sex-dominated society, people tend to view celibacy as a form of sexual anorexia - a sad and lonely state at best, unnatural at worst," says Elizabeth Abbott.
Jimmy O'Brien was a priest for the best part of a decade before deciding he had to leave his vocation. He has now been married for 20 years to a woman he met while still a priest, and he has two children.
[Pic in URL] Entering a life of celibacy - ordination of new priests at St Peter's Basilica, Vatican
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“What Is A Life Without Sex Like?”
I would rather not know.
It really doesn't matter much unless you're not getting any.
LOL
"If there is an act of sexual intercourse ANYWHERE on the planet, just know, my child... I am there too." -- Lazamataz, "Behind The World's Light (c) 1986"
Good point/addition.
This perhaps may explain why the idea of a celibate lifestyle, as practised by the clergy of the Catholic Church, as well as adherents of other religions, causes a great deal of puzzlement among non-believers.
It also causes a great deal of puzzlement among believers who not catholic.
Until recently, I could have given you and answer to that question.
That long excerpt from Song of Solomon is a celebration of sex between man and wife, not man and hookup.
The Bible is very sex positive, but only for a man and woman married to one another.
“I just don’t plan on having sex without the L-word attached.”
Leash? Leather? Lava Lamp?
;o)
LOL, you gotta be BULLSHAGGIN me!!!
Song of SOLOMON, the dude who had -- according to Kings I -- 700 wives and 300 concubines!!!
Yeah. Solomon was OBLIVIOUS to the concept of the 'hookup'..... LOL!
No,he gets plenty from the fellas over at that Central Park men's room.
I know Solomon was adulterous.
But the poem is about a man and his wife, referred to as his “bride.”
I believe that was Gamecock’s exact point.
What rock have you been living under? Hardly any Christian theologian or pastor believes that any more.
Short periods of voluntary celibacy for adults is no problem.In fact,when connected to religious worship it’s actually good and admirable.But lifelong?.....nope,sorry...not normal.Not at ALL normal.And yet the Catholic Church wonders why so many pervs are attracted to the priesthood (yes,I know,the pervs represent a small percentage of priests).If priests were to be allowed to marry a smaller percentage of those drawn to the priesthood would be *homosexual* pervs.There’d probably be a percentage that would be *hetero* pervs,just as a percentage of the population at large is,but...
The idea this a new problem is ridiculous. There has been promiscuity, adultery and breaking of all kinds of vows by humans for thousands of years. Read the Bible.
The problem of priests violating their vows is not new either. When part of my family came here from Europe in the 1880s, they were Catholic. My great-grandmother saw the priests in the US violating their vows and left the Catholic Church and joined the Lutherans. She was a terror, according to those who knew her.
ROFLOL!!
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