Quite frankly most women in the world today are so messed up as to what they want. They want a traditional man to make them feel safe and provided for. They want a modern girly man to understand their feelings and be supportive of all of their pursuits.
I think men are in the same confused mess. They want a traditional wife and mother for their children. A second later they want her to be gorgeous and alluring and adventurous. That’s a tall order and not easily accomplished by anyone.
The battle of the sexes has turned into the defeat of the sexes.