The Violent Femmes are "men". Men much like Obama, but men nonetheless.
But the fact of the matter is, real men do cheat, and so do real women. Real men also commit violent felonies, and so do real women, as evidenced by Wood's spouse.
Simple questions.
How much time will Woods do for cheating on his wife?
How much time will Eln do for attempting to brain her husband and coming pretty damn close to succeeding?
Bottom line is genitalia does not determine one's morality, nor does it determine one's disposition towards violence or non-violence.