That being said...so now the cops have been turned away twice by the woman who probably inflicted injuries on him. This would never happen if it were reversed. You are 100% correct on that one Hildy.
A husband who did this to his wife (no matter what the cheating circumstances that led to it) would not be able to tell the cops to shove off when he answered the front door.
The bottom line...They are both okay...Can apparently still live in the same house (neither is a hostage)...the children are fine, the dogs are fine...
And the world is concerned with this domestic arguement why??