Sorry, I side with the cop.
I really feel for the folks in law enforcement these days that have to respond to domestic calls. They don’t issue family jewel cups do they these days? They may have to.
Danged if you do, danged if you don’t.
I have never been a fan of tasers, but if I had to choose between that and a baton or firearm, .. I’d just comply with the instructions of the officer.