My condolence on your loss.
I trust your doctor meant no harm, for billing/medical/legal purposes it is the term which they have to use.
What I find abhorrent is the term for the willfull killing of a living baby, that is called a therapeutic abortion.
Saw that on the check list too, think there was 6 in that grouping of possible check boxes, but I didn't make the connection.
Yea think that wording is worse than spontaneous.