Posted on 09/08/2009 11:27:48 AM PDT by JoeProBono
i hope that masochism translated into an interesting adult life there Tabby.
your candor is refreshing
my wife coulda said the same things but at times
she is a hellcat..or Mae West or Tallulah Bankhead
you know what I mean
Which brings to mind.
WOMEN ARE MORE POWERFUL SEXUALLY THAN MEN..truth be told even if their drive is less
a turned on woman can devour a man or two or three in short order
let’s see a man do that to three or four sexually seasoned ladies who are well motivated
I think of sex as exercise....I like to exercise pretty much every day.....LOL! (....you can lose a few pounds in one weekend on my exercise program...seriously!!! ;)
LOL ... I wonder how many Freeper men checked out your profile/location.... ;)
cynwoody$ irb -r date
>> (Date.parse('September 17') - 7665).to_s
=> "1988-09-22"
BTW, congratulations!
Feminazis’ really need to get a life.
Thanks again for the post. Yes, it was long but it was also appropriate.
I know for me that when I hear the man bashing, it makes me really appreciate, and notice, those women that do not talk about their husbands/boyfriends. I respect them greatly for not participating in the bashing.
These are few, but they are jewels.
Niteflyr,
Ah but the Kelly McGillis example applies to men too, perhaps it applies more often to men. How many times have we heard of a closeted male homosexual ‘trying’ to live the heterosexual lifestyle and going through a series of painful marriages and having children only to reveal later, that he prefers men.
I think the oddness of the women-who-don’t-like-men angle is that the women who like men the least often seem to be the ones in hottest pursuit of a mate or ‘commitment’. Men who don’t like women may tend to pursue them quite casually or, less often, marry them to secure the housewife who will cook and clean.
So there may be a greater burden on men to determine whether or not the woman who is pursuing him actually likes men.
Women are likely find out quicker and perhaps in a more humiliating fashion, that the man they are dating has little actual regard for them although there are many tales of heartbreak for those who find out late.
I am glad you honed to the talent to tell the difference.
I'd say that is true more often than not....but then it makes sense if the pursuit is about acquiring other than the company of a man. I find that women who truly love men don't keep looking at their watches...(lookit buster time's a wastin' you better commit to me now or else!)...because since they enjoy men's company they don't see it as only an investment that they expect will pay off.
Very good point - I never really caught that until you pointed it out. I just couldn’t understand what the rush was for those women and they couldn’t understand me either - I assumed we were just different. The two women who, in my life, were THE MOST intent on getting married NOW NOW NOW are the ones who do not like men.
Makes perfect sense - goal oriented pursuit of men means ‘any means’ to the goal, even listening to him talk!
Although I believe that some women in that ‘rush’ crowd (maybe the minority?) do enjoy men but somehow believe that their success depends on getting married (a sociological thing). My closest friend does love men but thinks back to her disaster- marriage in her 20s in wonderment saying “I just don’t know why I was in such a rush to get married, but I was.”
By coincidence perhaps, her ex husband is a man who doesn’t like women - he wants a silent servant . After they were married he asked incredulously if she really believed when they were dating that he actually enjoyed sitting next to her watching movies with a bowl of popcorn between them on the couch. Like “You didn’t REALLY think I liked spending time with you, did you?”
Wanting to get married BADLY is not in itself and indication of seeing men as a means to an end...just one of many subtle indicators. Another is when a woman tells you "I wasted a year dating that guy and couldn't get him to commit." Why would dating a man she actually likes be a waste of time? Unless the primary goal was to attain ownership? The key to the phrase is calling it "a waste of time". Paying close attention to how women refer to men can reveal a lot about what their intentions are. One of the biggest mistakes I see men make is when women rag on their ex-husbands or boyfriends and the new guy tries to prove to her that he is not like them. A real trap.
Good points. Maybe that’s why I hate it women speak of ‘trying to make a relationship work’ because they have already ‘invested’ x amount of time it - like down payments on a car...
Exactly...words like that just makes a man want to fall head over heals in love don't they?
“I have sex with my husband for orgasms BUT material things are as good a reason as any.”
Your husband is a lucky man!!
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