Maybe that would be the case for the bars that you a I are familiar with.
But I am sure the people in the trendy bars that this fag is used to would find him “upwardly mobile and forward thinking”.
Round here he’s just a fag.
Maybe, but methinks that when a (relatively normal) woman looks for a mate, tops on her list is not going to be a 45 year old blogging granola eater whose primary asset is a paid-ahead bus card.
You can parse that pretty easily, starting with “relatively normal” and “mate”. If granola man is really “cute” (whatever the F that means LOL) he might get lucky if it is late and he offers to drive her home in her car bc she is too drunk.