Maybe it is all those weird faces he makes when he is playing.
He appears to be a passive-aggressive type personality to me. Chicks might dig that. I don’t — I dated a bunch of guys like that in the past (and I should hold a Ph.D. in spotting out guys with this sort of behavior.)
I’m a Jason Mraz fan so my sons thought I might enjoy Mayer too...they gave me his DVD for Christmas....oh my, I could NOT watch him sing...it’s just soooo wierd and unnecessary. So, I guess I don’t “get” him either ;) Gave the DVD away.