I have High School age girls.
You would not believe what some of the girls go to school wearing.
I am NOT defending the guy, but when a portion dress like hookers the temptation is there.
I Often find my self thinking if these student have parents who see what they wear to school.
Aeons ago.
Some of the girls "come on" to you. It's unmistakable.
It's flattering.
It's also tempting.
An honourable man ignores or deflects it. He doesn't pursue it or take advantage of it.
A smart man makes sure there are witnesses to the ignoring and deflecting.
I know what you mean. I’m a teacher and I lecture my female students about it a lot. “If you are wearing something that makes the boys look at you like this” (insert goggle-eyed stare here) “You should not be wearing that!”
When my daughter was 13 she had a friend who came on to me so often that I had to forbid her to visit our home. All it takes is a few words from some dizzy little female, and your entire life can go down the tube. Even if a man is proved innocent he will carry the stigma for life.
Years ago, girls dressed more modestly.
Nowadays the hooker look is popular.
And boundaries of behavior have blurred. Even girls in high school don’t see it as wrong to be involved with older men outside marriage. So things will happen when there are no standards that everyone observes.