I think I know her! LOL!
Tried the same thing with the ‘perfect woman’, heavy into photography, not afraid to wade off into a swamp for the perfect shot, we cooked together and made some awesome meals, very affectionate, I was smitten.
Then she a made mindless, hateful comment about the military. It all went down hill from there.
Couldn’t be the same, mine couldn’t cook worth a damn!