My husband has a relative. She was in an abusive relationship and got pregnant. Her dad said, "You'll have a tough life." Her mom and other relatives helped her out. Within a year, she and her boyfriend from high school were back together, they were married, and they have since had two other children together, and her husband is very successful. I know she is glad she kept her baby.
Not every situation can be painted with a broad brush.
But what are the odds?