Peter Falk suffers from Alzheimer's, daughter says

Reuters - Yahoo ^ | December 16, 2008 | Alex Dobuzinskis

[El Gato]

My mother-in-law suffered about 10 yrs with Alzheimers, and I was glad for the training I had in college about it. It is like any long term illness that starts with them acting normal some of the time, and forgetting more and more. The normal things become impossible for them to do, and usually they go to a nursing home in last stages. In the early stages they become not only forgetful but combative, and getting them to bathe or care for themselves is difficult as they are confused as to what is going on. They forget to eat and you have to remind them to take every bite. They can’t live alone, and eventually need 24 hr skilled care, unless you are a nurse or have the patience of Job. They are otherwise usually healthy and do not suffer the colds and small illnesses we have on a regular basis

My Dad suffered from Alzheimer's, and while he didn't get colds, he had terrible allergies, which had never bothered him before.

When Mom finally decided she could no longer care for him, probably 1/2 a year later than she should have, he only lasted just under 3 weeks in the care facility. He hated it, didn't understand why he was there, and would ask when he got to go home. He didn't know much, but he knew he wasn't home, and when told he had to get better before he could go home, well he apparently knew he wasn't going to get better, and just gave up.

He got pneumonia over Easter, was taken to the hospital and given antibiotics. Then a day or two later my brother and mother took him to see his doctor for a follow up. He seemed to be doing fine and they even stopped at the house on the way back to the facility. Next day, he was observed sitting on his bed picking at his lunch, half hour later, he was gone. Alone with not even a stranger. That was hard to know. It's hard to write about now a few years later.

My father-in-law exhibited similar symptoms, but never got combative. He was diagnosed as having, and he continued to have, a series of micro strokes. Again, my mother-in-law was in denial, waited too long, and nearly did herself in. He never did make it to the local state veteran's home, where he'd at least have been among friends, because he passed on while waiting for an opening.

[El Gato]

The rest of the trip, I just picked up KFC and brought it back to the motel room for the evening meal.

Wimp. If the men had not taken off their hats, or it was OK to wear them indoors, that would be one thing. But heck they knew they'd messed up. Why be embarassed that your Dad, bless his soul, pointed it out to them. An old guy can get away with stuff like that. :)

Hats indoors is a pet peeve of mine too. I don't see it much around here, but then I work on the largest military base in the free world. :) They don't go into a Blimpies and not take off their cover as they go through the door.

[19th LA Inf]

I used to eat in a restaurant that had a sign “If you wear your hat at the dinner table at home, please do so here. We want you to feel at home”.

[McLynnan]

So sad about your father and father-in-law. My dad had Alzheimer’s too and died of a massive heart attack before things progressed too far. With the passage of time my family has come to be thankful he was taken so quickly and spared years with the disease. He was a retired FBI agent and used to being in command. He knew what was coming his way and to this day I can’t stand to think about what must have gone through his mind when he realized what was happening to him. God was merciful to call him home quickly.

[ravinson]

In papers filed in Los Angeles Superior Court on Friday last week, Catherine Falk said her 81-year-old father can be “deceived into transferring away property” and that the actor should be under her conservatorship to protect his health and assets.

Petitioning for a conservatorship is an expensive hassle that can generate unwelcome publicity. I'm surprised that someone that old and wealthy didn't have a durable power of attorney and better estate planning.

[fieldmarshaldj]

I’m sorry to hear this about Mr. Falk. Prayers for his health.

[Clintonfatigued]

I guess when he says, “Now, one more thing...”, he’ll really mean it.

I really enjoyed his performances as Columbo.

[My hearts in London - Everett]

Just a week or so ago, I watched a series of 4 or 5 movies that he appeared in on the Hallmark channel. It was cool to see him in a different setting than Colombo, which I used to enjoy watching too.

[saminfl]

“Serpentine, Sheldon”

One of my favorite movies. The remake was awful.

[newfreep]

Yep, a classic comedy and both Falk & Arkin were superb together. I'll always remember the "Serpentine" scene - hilarious!

I never saw the remake...and glad I missed it from comments I've heard & read.

[Impy]

Crap not Columbo. Love Colubmo. Best Wishes Mr. Falk.

He also played a Castro-type in a classic Twilight-zone episode.

You beat me to a “one more thing” pun CF. ;)