Look, I've seen flame wars where the very words would flay skin off your bones and verbal evisceration that would wake you up at night in a cold sweat. Think about how you'd be responded to on DU for any post here and maybe that response will seem a lot more friendly.
Boy that sure is the truth (well nearly--LOL) and so adeptly and poetically written about as well Caipirabob. :-). Nearly took my breath away reading it.