The way the author describes a “bitch” appears to be an assertive woman. It’s not properly defined IMO. I’ll give my wife as an example. She’s 8 years my senior. We’ve been married for 13 years. She made a pass at me and I took the bait. The first 3 months were a roller coaster of fun!
As we kept going, gut check time had set in. She was twice divorced. She wasn’t sure her age would become a factor as the years past. She wanted to break it off, but I wanted a family. I’d made my decision to marry her within the first few days we met (she didnt know). Why? Call me a caveman, but she was a sensational cook, and she was very independent. She was assertive.
I don’t see bitchiness. I see a woman that can care for my kids in the unlikely event that something tragic happens to me. We now have 21 month old twins, 1 of each. This was one of my main reasons (she’s sexy too!)
This is also why men LOVE SARAH. She represents the ultimate wife/mom. It’s about a woman’s future mother skills. After all, the reason we marry is to have kids.
I don’t mean to say you’re wrong, but I thought the reason people marry was to give children a rock-solid base for upbringing and nourishment throughout their developing years, to have the nuclear family (not radioactive).
Any two people can produce a kid without marrying. Sometimes with one parent, the kid comes out fine. The other times, they don’t. And sadly, it happens far too often these days.