I explained it to my wife years ago this way: Either you take responsibility for checking whether the toilet seat is up or I leave it down all the time and you take your chances with my aim.
I will not be bullied into thinking it's my responsibility to make sure the seat is down for her.
Do you raise the seat after your done so your husband doesn't have to?
I do check, it is also common courtesy - to put the seat down. We have only one bathroom, all that I am asking for is a little consideration from hubby and the males on this forum on this matter. I do not leave the seat up, I was not raised to leave it up, the tinkle function is not the only function that one performs, sometimes nature calls and well, you cannot perform that function standing up. It is my job to clean up the bathroom and all I am asking from my husband and the gentleman on this forum - guys, think of your wives who have to clean up the bathroom, a little bathroom etiquette, please. Please leave the seat down, and clean up after yourselves, do not make it look like an aftermath of a hurricane, IT ONLY MAKES OUR JOB HARDER. I am clean and neat when I have to use the bathroom and I do not expect you to be as clean and neat as a gay man but do not be a slob about it either./Just Asking - seoul62......