Not really. First off taking out the trash is not a mans job unless he's the first one to see it's full. If a woman sees it's full and can't lift it then it is fine to ask her husband, otherwise she should take it out herself.
Now if your wife asks you to take out the trash during the football game it is a sure attempt to piss you off. She knows your watching the game. She wants to start a fight with you.
"Five minutes" with the wife usually comes when you're about to take her out to dinner or a movie or you are getting ready to go out. Let's say you have reservations at seven and at 6:30 your still asking how long until she's ready. That is inconsiderate as she should have started earlier instead of starting the night of contentiously.
By the way, I would like to know how many men would tell their wives to take out the trash.
My husband and I have a system. I take the bag out of the can and close it up. He is wimpy about bad smells. Lol He takes it out to the can. It works for us.