Yikes, that's a frightening concept! Please tell me that this cat is not marching in "pride" parades, demanding separate restrooms, and going to swinging soirees with all his?/her? "bended" animal buddies!
Norman is just the unfortunate victim of a blocked urinary tract, which according to my vet is a very common problem in tom cats. In his case, the blockage was so bad that the only cure was a perineal urethrostomy—essentially a kitty sex change. Norman’s still 100% male in his little cat brain; he just doesn’t have male equipment any more.