"Look, I realize you have conservative beliefs, which is why you are posting here, so I don't want to scold you. BUT, surely you realize that all relationships are difficult, and require work. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but true love will survive the bad times. Divorce is the easy way out." It's not that serious a problem that divorce is a consideration. It's just that she has her own ways. You know, she wants to go one way and I want to go the udder way.(ba boom boom)