Maybe it was love but at best it is a difficult relationship. For instance one must disengage while performing the sex act in order to run around to the front and give the Cow a kiss. A bit awkward and tiring as well.
Look, I realize you have conservative beliefs, which is why you are posting here, so I don't want to scold you. BUT, surely you realize that all relationships are difficult, and require work. Every relationship has its ups and downs, but true love will survive the bad times. Divorce is the easy way out.