[DeLaine]

I say speak up before you get angry and then the conversation is about doomed.

Speak up while you can still do it calmly.

[WFTR]

Your advice is good, but then I read your tagline, remember what you said about changing taglines, and start chuckling.

Is there ever a situation when the best course of action is to let things go and hope that they improve on their own? How do you know how to "pick your battles?"