That’s neat to hear. Is there any advice that you’d like to give?
Advice?
Not sure about that, cause everyone is different, but the main thing that I did was talk to the spouse. They knew we were already friends, and I told the person flat out that if I had been romantically interested than my friend wouldn’t have been single. They’d have been married to me.
I also said that if anyone ever said we were ‘running’ around behind everyones back, they better call me first cause there would be a fight. I don’t break up homes, and have the highest disgust for those who do. I told the spouse, I didn’t want to lose my friend, but if our ‘relationship’ made them uneasy I would let my friend ‘go’.
So, I guess my only advice would be...be honest. With your friend, with their spouse, and most important with yourself.