There's nothing wrong with gray hair on a woman (says the au natural meowmeow). Now I'll grant it - it isn't easy to pull off as I've discovered. I've had to upgrade the rest of me (as in wearing nicer, better fitting clothes and putting on some makeup) otherwise I just look OLD and FRUMPY.
I get more compliments on my hair now that it is gray (actually it is silver) than I ever did when I was young.
Every older woman I know dyes her hair. Even my grandma who’s chosen shade is so light it barley makes a difference. Once she did something that made it look greenish.
I was just shocked to see Jamie-Lee Curtis gray when I recently saw some yogurt commercial. I never expected to see a hollywood actress trying to age naturally.