A woman or a man can drive their spouse into the arms of another. It does not make it right but if a woman can be insane enough to kill her husband then a husband can be starved enough for affection to find it elsewhere. \
I was smart enough to wait until I was not married to start looking around but perhaps there are situations and people who are not strong enough to do so, I also waited until the kids were gone, it was hard to do. It has given me a much broader perspective on the whole issue.
I think I was only saying — better not to murder the spouse, as you will suffer terrible consequences. Always better to walk away from a crazy, hurtful person.
I didn’t say it was easy.
My husband divorced his first wife, and I am eternally thankful. He is a good man, too good for her.