When life mimics morning soap operas.
I can’t imagine how messed up these kids are going to be a decade from now.
Yes, that's the real moral issue, rather than the issue of financial support. Let the kids get scholarships or jobs, if they want to go to college!
The real damage is in conceiving the children knowing that there was no possibility of their having a normal family life, with a mother and father devoted to them. Money doesn't fix everything.