It is if they are white or they can be any race and offend a queer.
I would like to know confess before the FR world that I wardaddy have used about every nasty term known for every group known to man when I am angry at said group or individual and especially if things were getting physical.
Somebody calls me a white mfing cracker and I figure they can handle being called the word that shall not be uttered.
I was spanked if I used that word as a boy.
I have said bad things about women too.
And worst of all, I spank my kids and I kicked a dog once...a big dog.
There I feel better now. I'm ready for my rehabilitation camp.
I’m not offended by it because I chose to not listen to it. It was a private conversation between adults and as far as I’m concerned it doesn’t exist.
OTOH I have thought about what the word might be and now I should probably be punished for thinking it.
Remember: Its not so much the "people of color" that are trying to censor us at any term, it is OTHER WHITE PEOPLE, particularly Bourgeois White Women (the women I hate the most. There, I said it) who will go insane if they hear a racial slur, yet avoid blacks/hispanics/Arabs, etc. as much as they can in their real life.
I have been attacked on this site before for making fun of different groups of people, but the most vehement attacks have come from other white people over making "observations" about "people of color."