GOP_Raider, I think this is what we were talking about before about "being yourself." Being comfortable in your own skin, even you have (and acknowledge having) flaws such as baldness or being short. Being fixated on those problems, or allowing them to make you discontent, is what is unappealing.I like this insight Dave. You have to admit though, it's not as easy as it looks for some people to be comfortable "in their own skin". For me, it's something I have to work at doing.