These guys are either the most promising candidates for marriage counseling or the least. (I suppose they are also the most vulnerable to influence by the wrong counselor.)
But, good grief! Couldn’t they just call it even and go from there? They’ve proven - twice - that they can be and seem to want to be ideal mate for the other. What’s it take for the twits to be happy, anyway?
Or is it that they just want “new”?
The human heart is such a tempestuous place......
One factor could be that there may not be very many "married but looking" chatrooms in Bosnia, and so two people who have some superficial personality attractions are going to be funneled into a limited-size arena at the outset, and so the two-dimensional landscape of chatrooms allows them to see the sorts of qualities that may have attracted them to begin with.
Out in the real world, however, their reality was:
Adnan, 32, said: 'I still find it hard to believe that Sweetie, who wrote such wonderful things, is actually the same woman I married and who has not said a nice word to me for years.'
Or is it that they just want “new”?
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Excellent observation. Probably the cause of 85% of divorces.