It is great to hear someone else has this dilemma, too... well, I’m sorry you have it, too, I guess.
It’s a tough situation... and it is exacerbated when both parents don’t have similar agendas.
Daughter got back from visiting mom yesterday, and expressed all sorts of objections, but actually I have to say they weren’t really powerful objections.
I am blessed that she accepts my authority easily.
Hmmm... perhaps I should add “now” to the end of that sentence... If I do, it makes it seem that my best bet is to make the change now, and avoid possibilities of a huge scene in a couple years...