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I do wonder how many men might not see a tattoo , fall in love and find out the woman of their dreams had one, would they drop her?

Pandora, I wasn't offended. My response that I wasn't gay was only meant to be funny. :)

I think the majority of men would not mind at all if they found out that the woman they cared about had a tattoo that she concealed. I think with most people it's not the tattoo, but the way in which the person with the tattoo publicly displays the tattoo. I don't think a woman is a skank for getting a tattoo above her butt crack, but many people, myself included, do not enjoy being forced to see the public display of her tattoo when she wears low rider jeans with her butt crack or nasty thong strap peaking out.

This will be the only impression most of us ever have of her and she might as well just wear a sign that says skank because she is obviously using the tattoo to sexually attract any Tom, Dick, or...gay Harriet on the street.

Your post was very well said ....I think the name calling and labeling and just the ingorance bothered me about this thread the most. I never try to hurt anyone's feelings on here unless they hurt mine or attack me. I do have my days. What you said about 1st impressions was right on. It is true. I was sitting her with my son's fiancee and she was reading along with me.
She said this about tattoos....All my friends have them and I don't want to be like everyone else so I am not going to get one. Nor will I pierce my body, its just not me. Plus she is going to be a teacher and wants to be a role model. Poor girl then said omg have I offended you? I said of course not.

I totally agree with you about not having to see anyone's crack, man or women. I think most of the clothes young girls wear are just too ho like. Look at the role models they look up to Paris Hilton , Spears, etc. And some of the girls that my son's have brought home I have been shocked, and I am by no means a prude...I do however have a 7 yr old daughter and I don't want those kind of girls around her. I am careful about the clothes I buy for her, and some of the clothes that are in stores I would never dress my child in. Its disgusting. Tee shirts that say Cherry Farm on them....not on my baby. I can't believe some of the slogans them.... Omg....Maybe I am a prude or maybe I am getting old. I am sick of people making children into little sex objects or mini me's. Mothers having their little girls hair dyed or streaked to match theirs. Its sickening and crazy. .....I do worry about these tattoo parties, teens don't think they can get infections and hep C. Or the ones who ink themselves up...Thank God my children never did that. The older ones have tats. My adopted son was a tattoo artist until he got married and his wife said no way get a different job..... I just wish people would really think long and hard before getting ink on their bodies because what you like at 18 usually won't be what you like at 40. ~~Pandora~~