Actually, I DID read that. I wasn't on a rant at you which I should have made clear....my apologies. I wanted to address the folks who are among those non shooter pro self defense folks I mentioned. I wanted them to take heed of my words and remember them the next time some slick gunshop salesman or gunshow salesman tries to sell them a cute little small caliber pistol, ideal for self defense. So sorry it really wasn't aimed at you. lol
No problem.
I always advise people to NOT go to a gun shop, but rather go to a gun club/shooting range and borrow various handguns to try before ever thinking about a purchase.
Most friendly gun clubs will have plenty of guys that will let anyone give theirs a try if they pay for the ammo. (and perhaps a beer after the guns are put away)