You're right. Hollywood USUALLY does love violence and R-rated movies. I'm at the point where I avoid them. Besides 'The Nativity Story,' I also recommend 'The Queen.'
What about "One Night with the King"?
At first, I thought that was a movie about a homosexual, and I didn't want to go, then I found out it was about the Queen of England, so I reluctantly went to see it. HATED IT! I thought it to be a boring rehash of the Diana fairy tale in real life of the late 20th century, seen from the otherwise unknowable eyes of the Queen herself. The guy that played Tony Blair was such a sissy I couldn't believe it. I couldn't stand the boredom, and I couldn't fall asleep, so I left and saw something else.