Different fer you, though. If I jump in as a single person, I'll get lambasted.
Everyone gets lambasted. It's a free for all. :~)
Don't be defensive about being single. Don't let them call you some kind of trend. You're as different and full of your own particulars as any of us are when you really look close. You're just one chick tryin' to do the best she can.
I still jumped into those threads when I was single... but I know why you don't. Personally I find idiots to be fun to mock in my head so I don't mind those threads.