But men conspicuously ogle women's butts, too. (There are even popular songs about it.) And yet, women don't think men ought to find them attractive, so they worry about whether their butts look too large. "Does this make my butt look big?" Woe to the man who answers in the affirmative, intending it as a compliment. If a woman's body image were truly beholden to the lusts of men, she'd usually be less concerned with shrinking her backside.
Do men prefer larger breasts to smaller breasts? Of course (up to a point). But that can only be simulated by silicone, much as a man might stuff a sock into his pants, or have alpha-male status airbrushed onto his cover shot. When finally revealed, they're likely to disappoint. I believe that most women who get implants already know this, but as they're not really out to please men, it doesn't matter to them.
Whaaaa? Of course they do. You don't know women well my friend.
Yes they do, but an overly large butt is not usually admired by men. (Think of Rosie.)
Women know this which is why they want to make sure their butts are not too large...thus the question which rises from insecutity.
You sound a bit confused. Know that women are not attracted by the same things men are. They are different. The sooner a man figures this out the sooner he will be a good husband i.e. lover.