And if a man looks at another woman with more interest and joy....even if it's just looking....
Well...The energy that goes into just the look is a dagger through many a woman's heart.
Not logical, just fact.
Forgive me for saying so, but that's what I meant by paying for a woman's insecurity.
Heterosexual men really, really like to look at women. It makes us very, very happy to see women. But since many women are insecure, they misunderstand and see this as a threat. And they punish their men for it.
Women want all men in the world to want them, and only them. Because of their insecurities.
I didn't waste anytime on imagination.
Waste time on imagination? Do you mean that?
I think perhaps this is an important difference of opinion, relevant to this discussion. To me, fantasy is a free, fun form of entertainment. A very *good* thing, to be encouraged.
YMMV, I'm sure.
the bottom line to a healthy, happy and loving relationship is concern for your partner's feelings; that goes both ways. And before someone pipes up and says what about the husband's feelings as far as wanting to watch porn and look at other women? well then there's a cost benefit analysis, is it more important for you to get your rocks off, at the expense of your wife's feelings? Everything is a balancing act in a marriage. The balancing will vary from marriage to marriage, and how you let that balance tip, and how often, will determine the success or failiure of that marriage.
LOL!
I actually read and write fantasy.....BTW.
And I have a good imagination.
Just a weird history, that's all.
Again, it isn't insecurity, it's simply focus and energy directed at someone else in a manner that isn't directed at you.
Oh, and I was talking about imagining killing my coworker ;)